
I drove to the vet hospital (God knows how) and sat by Charlie's cage, hoping and willing her to stand up and walk to me. What faced me broke my heart. She was trying to crawl to me using her front legs......she was panting....she looked so sad. I have photos of Charlie during this time but I can't bear to put them up here. I just can't look at them, even two years later. At this point the Vet asked me if I would like to be present when Charlie was put to sleep. I was in two minds, but didn't want Charlie to be on her own. Lucy the Vet was fantastic, she explained everything to me......handed me tissue after tissue after tissue. I held Charlie....I told her that it was all going to be ok, she was sooooo loved.......Lucy injected Charlie......and then she left us. It was scary and totally devastating for me....I had just lost my best friend of 12 years. She had been my unconditional love. My confidante. We depended on each other. Lucy put Charlie back into the cage and covered her with a blanket but so I could see her head and face. I sat on the cold, bare floor and sobbed my heart out. I cried and cried and cried. All the other animals looked at me puzzled (probably thinking 'Those humans are so odd') I wanted to stay there forever, I wanted to never leave this place without my Charlie. In a conversation to my wonderfully sympathetic Mum (who knew and loved Charlie) earlier that day, she had so kindly offered to pay for Charlie's cremation by 'Pets At Peace'......so I somehow got myself off the floor and to the front desk.....and there I stayed crying for another hour or so......I had to fight myself to not go back into the treatment area where I knew they would have put Charlie into a cardboard box or something similar (although I begged the staff to be 'gentle' with Charlie after I left) I think I cried for at least 6 months after Charlie left us. Getting her ashes was a difficult night. The kids and I cried for an hour or so. Pets At Peace were so wonderful, I almost felt guilty of using them as a counselling service. The vet hospital was also great. My kids were really angry at me for not letting them say goodbye to Charlie......so I took Sorcha to the cage where Charlie was, and she met the vet that looked after Charlie.....it was a bit of closure for her I think.
I guess most of you are thinking 'Oh she was just a cat' and I have to disagree! To you, she may have been 'just a cat' but to me, she was the world! Charlie came to me at a very chaotic time in my life....she came down from Qld with me and went through all the ups and downs that I went through. We moved a few times, she dealt with it most of the time........she always got pissed off if I went away (would ignore me for a few days after I got home) She was the only living thing in my life that could tolerate me...and still give me cuddles even if I was a cranky bitch.
Charlie Farlie......Charlie Koala......cat detective......I will never stop loving you or missing you. You made such a difference in my life. People who don't have animals will not understand the bond that we had.....and that is ok....I even miss you prodding my stomach until it bled! You will never be forgotten xxxxxxxxxxxx

